By now, you’ve seen that preparing a child for life outside the home is more than giving them school knowledge. It’s about everyday skills that help them live independently, respectfully, and wisely. Here are three more skills every Nigerian child should have before they spread their wings.
1. How to Be Organized
An organized life is a peaceful life. Teaching children how to keep things in order now will help them avoid stress later. From tidy rooms to well-planned schedules, organization makes life easier.
Start Early Ideas for Parents:
* Assign a regular “tidy-up time” at home each day.
* Give them a small diary or calendar to write down important dates and reminders.
* Let them be responsible for keeping their school ID, certificates, and personal documents safe.
2. How to Clean a Home
Cleaning is not punishment, it’s survival. Whether in a dorm, hostel, or their first apartment, a child who knows how to clean will live healthier and more comfortably.
Start Early Ideas for Parents:
* Teach them how to sweep, mop, and dust properly.
* Show them how to clean the toilet and bathroom without fear or disgust.
* Rotate household chores so they learn all aspects of keeping a home clean.
3. How to Spend Wisely
In today’s “show off” culture, children must learn that money is a tool, not a trophy. Understanding value over cost, avoiding impulse buying, and practising delayed gratification will protect them from many financial mistakes.
Start Early Ideas for Parents:
* Give them small allowances and guide them on how to divide it between spending, saving, and giving.
* Involve them when making small household purchases so they learn how to compare prices.
* Share stories (yours or others’) about the consequences of reckless spending.
Final Thought:
If we don’t teach our children these skills, the world will and often, the lessons will be harder and more painful. Start now, start small, and watch them grow into responsible, capable adults.
