We have walked through practical life skills children need, from managing time to handling money. But there are still a few more essentials that prepare them to face life’s realities with courage, wisdom, and faith.
1. How to Drive Safely
Driving is not just about moving a car from point A to point B. It is about valuing life, obeying traffic rules, and staying alert on the road. Even if your child is not of driving age yet, teach them the basics of road safety: how to cross the street properly, the meaning of traffic lights, and the importance of patience behind the wheel.
Start Early Ideas for Parents:
Teach them simple traffic rules during walks or car rides.
Let older teens sit in the front seat and observe you driving responsibly.
Remind them that reckless driving has consequences for them and others.
2. How to Swim
Drowning is sadly common in Nigeria, but swimming is a lifesaving skill. Beyond safety, it builds confidence and discipline.
Start Early Ideas for Parents:
Enroll them in swimming lessons if possible.
If lessons are not available, let them learn through safe, supervised programs at school, church, or community centres.
Always supervise practice. Safety first.
3. How to Have a Relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ
This is the most important life skill of all. Your child may know how to cook jollof rice, pass exams, or even drive a car, but without Jesus they are missing the true foundation of life. A living relationship with Christ gives direction, strength, and eternal hope.
Start Early Ideas for Parents:
Read the Bible together daily, even if just a few verses.
Pray with them in the morning, before meals, and at bedtime.
Teach them to obey God's word and lean on Him in every season.
Most importantly, let your home reflect the love and fear of God. Children learn more from what they see than what they are told.
Final Thoughts:
As Nigerian parents, our job is not only to pay school fees and provide food. It is to prepare children for life spiritually, mentally, and practically. Start early, be consistent, and lead by example.
One day, they will leave your home. And what you have taught them in faith, wisdom, and skills (Home training) will shape how far they will go in life.
